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DIRTY TALK ★ FOOT JOBS ★ S3XTING ★ KINK ★ AUTHENTIC RELATING ★ ENM ★ BDSM ★ CHEMISTRY ★

DIRTY TALK ★ FOOT JOBS ★ S3XTING ★ KINK ★ AUTHENTIC RELATING ★ ENM ★ BDSM ★ CHEMISTRY ★

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Everything they never taught you about sex

Imagine feeling more chemistry, creativity, and freedom in your body as you step into the most embodied and sensual version of yourself.

This is a space where you can explore new topics, techniques, and modalities—where guided tutorials and personalized mentoring can support you in expanding and refining your capacity for intimacy, connection, and desire.

Your wildest fantasies aren’t far off.
The first step is letting yourself feel them.

Available courses 

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Ethical 3sums

This course is your guide to navigating multi-play partner experiences with clarity, confidence, and so much care.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Initiate and negotiate threesomes or group play with consent, clarity, and zero ick

  • Spot common red flags and avoid relational dynamics that lead to rupture

  • Use tools like pre-plays, aftercare, and boundaries to create safer, hotter experiences

  • Stay connected to yourself and others before, during, and after the experience

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Dirty
Talk

This course will help you learn to use words as foreplay, fuel, and full-body invitation.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Find your authentic dirty talk voice (even if you’ve never said a word in bed)

  • Use tone, timing, and language to build erotic tension and connection

  • Explore fantasies, power dynamics, and praise without performance pressure

  • Shift out of your head and into your body—so your words actually turn you on too

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Sexual Confidence

This course is a reclamation—not of some performance-based ideal, but of your real, raw, radiant erotic self.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Build embodied confidence rooted in self-knowledge, not comparison

  • Unpack and unlearn internalized shame, fear, or pressure around s3x

  • Stay grounded and present in intimate moments, even when you’re nervous

  • Own your desires and communicate them without apology

Who is this for?

Individuals exploring their sexuality

Whether you’re new to sexual self-discovery or looking to deepen your understanding, this is a space for learning and growth.

Those seeking more sexual confidence

If you want to feel more empowered in your desires, communication, and self-expression.

Anyone curious about non-monogamy

If you’re considering or already practicing non-monogamy and want guidance, tools, and frameworks for success, safety and repair.

Kink and BDSM explorers

For individuals interested in ethical kink, power dynamics, and expanding their knowledge in a safe and informed way.

Queer and questioning individuals

This is a supportive space for those exploring or embracing their LGBTQ+ identity in the realm of intimacy and relationships.

People interested in group dynamics

If you’re navigating threesomes, group play, or alternative relationship structures with care and clarity.

Real client success stories…

This is the education I wish someone would have given to me as a young adult. It would have changed the course of my sex life. I’m just relieved I found it now! When you have such an honest and safe space to explore yourself and these topics, you get unlocked. Kalyja is so knowledgeable and open — her teaching makes me feel like I can have anything I want.

R. — Course Student

“I truly couldn’t recommend a session with Kalyja more, truly, I’ve told everyone I know to book with her.”

— Anonymous

“My experience of working with Kalyja has been consistently illuminating and expansive. I feel so safe navigating uncharted waters of mind and body with her caring, curious, and encouraging guidance. She is deeply attuned and meets them with tremendous wisdom and creativity. Every session has inspired me to dig deeper, and I absolutely attribute that to her wise counsel. I would recommend S3x Edge sessions to anyone who wants to discover new and surprising aspects of self. Truly yummy work.”

— Kendra

“sessions with kalyja feel like the one thing clinical therapy has never embodied for me - warmth and deep, yet acute wisdom. it’s a container for difficult work with nothing force fed but so much within reach. i am growing enormously.

— August

“Working with Kalyja has deeply changed me. This isn’t just about sex… it’s about how you RELATE to your entire life and the desires that permeate it. My relationship to my partner has dramatically improved, I’ve never felt so sexually lit up and inspired… I honestly feel more creative and empowered in my professional life as well. I just want to keep going!

A — Coaching Client

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1:1 coaching

If you’re looking for more in-depth support, Kalyja is currently taking on a handful of select one-on-one coaching clients every year in 3 - 6 month containers. In these containers you will receive:

★ Weekly online (or in-person) coaching sessions

★ Text support in-between sessions

★ Free access to the S3x Edge online course library

★ Focalized support on the area of intimacy or relating where you most want it

Your curiosity is welcome

  • We welcome all experience levels—whether you’re just starting to explore your desires, deepening an existing practice, or seeking professional-level insight. Our courses are designed to be accessible and adaptable to your personal journey.

  • Yes. We prioritize consent, discretion, and a non-judgmental learning environment. You can engage at your own pace, with privacy settings and optional anonymous participation in certain discussions.

  • We offer both pre-recorded and live courses. Join our mailing list to stay informed about live Q&As, interactive workshops, and in-person events. You also have the option to add on private coaching to tailor your learning experience.

  • It’s completely normal to feel a mix of curiosity and hesitation when stepping into new territory. At S3x Edge, we create a judgment-free, self-paced, and consent-driven learning environment. You can start with beginner-friendly courses, engage as little or as much as you want, and always move at a pace that feels right for you.

  • Absolutely! Our courses and coaching are designed for both individual and partnered exploration. Many of our exercises can be done solo or with a partner(s), and we offer specific content on communication, desire mapping, and deepening intimacy together.

  • Yes! While all of the content in S3x Edge is relevant to spicy professionals. We also offer a comprehensive 6-month mentorship program specifically for spicy workers in our Spice Academy. Check it out!